Chain Of fools

Quit acting like a fool! ... I'm going to teach you the HOW, But more importantly the WHY.

Have you ever found your self asking the question ; 'Why is everyone such an As*hole today?'. I found my self asking this question to my mother yesterday, Her reply was simply " Its part of growing up, The world SUCKS!". Me being a 'Glass half-full' kind of person , means I refuse to believe this. I personally want to believe that there is always a reason why someone is choosing to make someone else's life extremely difficult.

I have quite a few people in my current life or recent past that are / have defiantly gone out of there way to make a negative impact on my life. Wither it was my shitty ex-boss or the dealership guy that is trying to scam me, I find a common denominator with all these 'As*holes'. They are so scared.

Right now I want you to look back on your life and define the time where you were an fool. Ill go first: 16 - 18 years old I discovered 'illegal substances' and started destroying everyone's lives. I don't remember much because I was so high all the time, But I do remember being so terrified of my own abilities to ruin my life. No job, Shitty boyfriends, Aggressive friends , Illegal activities and so on. Because of the terrible situation I had put myself in, I felt so much guilt and anger towards everyone that wasn't in the same situation as me. In conclusion this lead me to be an As*hole.

I want you to take a step back and loo at your life, Look at everything that is going wrong, Firstly you will realise that its not as big as it feels, But secondly you will be able to identify what IS and ISNT your own doing. How many of these unfortunate events could you have prevented? I can definitely think of a few recent events myself where I should have just stayed true to my beliefs and moved on with my day rather then 'fighting for my opinion'.

I hope in future, You stay true to your self and discover that there is no reason to be an As*hole. You are a good person ... probably making poor choices.

So... to finish off this disruptive blog remember / Avoid the following

AVOID:

1. Arguing with sad or disruptive people

2. Criticizing yourself

3. Letting people affect your wellbeing

4. Allowing situations to get 'out-of-hand'

REMEMBER:

1. People 'Against you' are scared or fear a particular outcome. They are simply overthinking in which is causing them to be confused and disruptive.

2. You are stronger then you think, It doesn't have to be this way.

3. You have full control of your life.

4. You reap what you sew

Have a blessed day... Don't be an A*shole. xx