Women aren't COPING!

We are doing it lady's!

Women make up an astounding 42% of people in the workforce. Almost every industry is showing equality between genders with women accounting for 45% - 65%, Besides the industries in which make 'The big bucks' such as Oil, Gas, Electricity and transport... Those are still dominated by men, With women accounting for a maximum of %30 percent. But that's for a different article! My point being that women are crushing it! For over 70 years women have been fighting for the right of equality within the workforce. With Non-Violent protest, Requesting equal pay, Teaching our daughters the new way. We seem to have achieved our goal, We have proven to the world that we are more than just a 'Pretty face' . We are hard working, Intelligent and strong women who are capable of taking on the workforce.

As I get older and discover my own career, I've been bombarded by the intrusive thoughts of "Shit, My body has a clock". Being all of 22 years old, I never expected this to be something I would be worrying about! I look at the strong and independent women around me and I wonder ... How on earth do they do it? How is it possible to have a full time family and a full time career? Thankfully our system has been set up for us by our 'Founders', So surly that eliminates any stress or concern about working overtime? Let's take a look at it...

My perfect husband and I wake up, 6am ON THE DOT. As the children begin to wake up at around 7am, My husband and I take turns getting the children ready , and then ourselves. At 8am we are on our way tot the big city to concur the day! I Finish work at 3pm to pick up the kids and have dinner ready before my husband comes home at 5pm. For the rest of the night we play board games and relax around the fireplace helping our children with homework. Bed by 10pm ... Do it all over again.

With all factors aligned, This method seems to eliminate any stress around overworking, Burnout or unfair games. But when we look at the data on how likely this method is to be achieved, We are hit with the reality of being a woman in the 21st century.

• %90 of relationships fail due to cheating or weaponised incompetence.

• Women have a 30% chance of getting a medium - High income job.

• Cost of living has gone up 7%.

• %20 of couples are unable to have children due to infertility

• 1 in 5 women struggle with severe mental health

"Work / Life balance becomes harder to achieve if you have a partner who doesn't see that your unpaid labor is also work!" - Miss Corsair Debonair

So... We can't get the perfect partner, We can't get the good job, We can't keep up with the cost of living, We have low chances of childbearing and we have a high chance of suffering from severe mental health issues.

As a result, Women all over the world are sacrificing their wellbeing in order to achieve an unrealistic dream that is not dedicated to our wants or needs. Women have always dealt with the devastating reality of being dehumanized, Whether it's being sexualised , or emotionally mistaken for hysteria, or made 'Incompetent' by the male dominated workforce. Women are very aware of our life curse, 'The Human without human rights'.

With briefcases and baby bottles in hand, We march on, Knowing that in order to achieve 'the dream' there is one sacrifice that we have to be willing to make, ourselves. We shed tears in memory of the vibrant young lady we used to be and hope that doing that last load of laundry will set us free. We can nag and stomp our feet, In hopes that someone will see our pain and take the weight of our shoulders. But the reality is, This world wasn't set up for us, Women weren't considered in the creation of society... We don't fit in.

" growth is uncomfortable because you've never been here before, You've never been this version of yourself, so give yourself a little bit of grace and breath through it" - Kristian Lohr

Women of the 21st century are in the era of transformation. To take the plunge and choose growth as an individual is so brave in itself, But to make such a bold movement as a society is astounding. To be expected, We are experiencing uncomfortable numbers and data that is not in our favor. Regardless of transformation from an individual or a society the recipe is always the same ;

Step one : Dream [ Creating the vision ]

Step two: Push and Power [ Confidence guides the way]

Step three : Fear and self doubt [ Unsure of our ability ]

Step four : Courage [ Pushing through ]

Step five : Freedom [ Finding peace ]

We are on the way to greatness , But for our mission to be successful we can't skip any crucial steps whilst we build our empire.

Wellness coach Reanna Browning says " The majority of Women that seek coaching use the term 'I've lost myself ' - Which indicates to me , They have not been prioritizing their life balance". People management magazine claims that 9/10 women suffer from mental health issues regarding poor work - life balance. There is no denying that the majority of women are feeling lost and uncomfortable, But how can we support one another and share guidance through Step Three of building our 'Empire'?

"My advice to anyone who is experiencing poor Work - Life balance is to strip back your basics " - Reanna Browning coaching. This advice seems to be the most common resolution to our world wide problem of 'Over working'. This method is also known as 'Detoxification' - Eliminating all the factors in your life in which make you ill, Stressed, Mentally unstable or cause Extreme discomfort. From time to time we hear the expression "Just one night away from the kids and husband"- When in reality we need one night away from the ridiculous amount of responsibility we have taken on as strong independent women. To be at the point of avoidance and the feeling of 'Needing to run away' is an extreme sign that a detoxification is needed.

Detoxification looks different to every individual, Every Woman is dealing with different scenarios. For most women , Simply cleaning the house isn't going to solve the problem... A real in-depth detox requires you to look deeper than the surface. Have your 'Happiness requirements' evolved into unhealthy expectations? Or maybe a simple breakup with an 'Incompetent man' will do the trick?. Regardless of the situation , you are the only person who is able to find the source of your freedom.

Women are masters of having compassionate and empathetic approaches to life

Top 5 tips to DETOX

• FIND COMMUNITY - Facebook or social media groups

• TAKE A COURSE - affordable coaching for women (Reanna Browning coaching)

• FIND PEACE - Meditation , Yoga , Mindfulness, Exercise, even masturbation has proven to be effective!

• SAY NO - Look at your inconvenience square in the face and say 'You're not my problem'.

• DREAM - Allow your imagination and inspiration to run wild, even if it 'Unrealistic'

Dreams are the seedlings of reality - Napoleon Hill 'Think and grow rich'

Reanna Browning Coaching

Reanna Browning coaching Is all about true health and well-being stemming from embracing your inner strength and nurturing every aspect of yourself. Reanna's mission is to empower women to lead vibrant, balanced lives through a energetic approach to wellness.

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Miss Corsair Debonair

Author of Non-Fiction erotica E-books, Miss Debonair has no Guilt or shame when exploring sexuality and the vibrance. Pin-up model, Mother, Wife and nylon stocking enthusiast, Miss Debonair is a women for WOMEN!

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